My sibling, struggling financially, asked me for a large loan that I can afford, but they have a history of not paying people back and it could strain our relationship if I refuse or if they default again; what should I do?

Matilda Davies

Matilda Davies

Lend the money3 votes (19%)
Refuse the loan2 votes (13%)
Offer partial gift5 votes (31%)
Suggest other help6 votes (38%)

16 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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My sibling, struggling financially, asked me for a large loan that I can afford, but they have a history of not paying people back and it could strain our relationship if I refuse or if they default again; what should I do? | asQkme