My best friend is planning a lavish, destination wedding that I genuinely can't afford without going into significant debt, and I'm worried about upsetting them if I can't attend; how do I handle this?
Niklas Aalto
Go, incur debt4 votes (29%)
Politely decline attendance4 votes (29%)
Offer alternative celebration3 votes (21%)
Explain financial hardship3 votes (21%)
14 votes total • Created 3/4/2026
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