I've discovered my best friend's new partner is a person with a known history of severe manipulation and abuse, but my friend is deeply in love and dismisses all my subtle warnings. How do I protect my friend without alienating them?

Jonathan Washington

Jonathan Washington

Confront partner directly3 votes (19%)
Share evidence gently4 votes (25%)
Step back, let learn4 votes (25%)
Express fears plainly5 votes (31%)

16 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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I've discovered my best friend's new partner is a person with a known history of severe manipulation and abuse, but my friend is deeply in love and dismisses all my subtle warnings. How do I protect my friend without alienating them? | asQkme