My estranged sibling, who I haven't spoken to in years due to a bitter family dispute, is asking for a significant financial loan to cover unexpected medical bills, and I'm financially stable enough to help, but I'm unsure if I can trust them or reopen old wounds.
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Provide the loan unconditionally7 votes (50%)
Offer a smaller, non-repayable gift3 votes (21%)
Decline, citing past issues0 votes (0%)
Offer help, seek reconciliation4 votes (29%)
14 votes total • Created 3/4/2026
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