My partner wants to have children, but I'm secretly terrified of parenthood and worry I'll be a terrible parent. Do I voice my fears and potentially end our relationship, or agree and hope my feelings change?

Edeltraut Ridder

Edeltraut Ridder

Express fears honestly.2 votes (33%)
Agree, hope for change.0 votes (0%)
Suggest adoption instead.3 votes (50%)
Seek therapy together.1 vote (17%)

6 votes total • Created 3/30/2026

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My partner wants to have children, but I'm secretly terrified of parenthood and worry I'll be a terrible parent. Do I voice my fears and potentially end our relationship, or agree and hope my feelings change? | asQkme