A close family member consistently makes bigoted remarks at family gatherings, making other relatives and friends uncomfortable. Do I confront them directly and risk a major family rift, or endure it for the sake of peace?

Vivienne Leroy

Vivienne Leroy

Confront them directly.4 votes (33%)
Privately discuss concerns.6 votes (50%)
Avoid those gatherings.1 vote (8%)
Change the subject always.1 vote (8%)

12 votes total • Created 3/31/2026

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A close family member consistently makes bigoted remarks at family gatherings, making other relatives and friends uncomfortable. Do I confront them directly and risk a major family rift, or endure it for the sake of peace? | asQkme