A former colleague, who was unfairly treated, has asked me to provide a negative reference for their old manager, and I know it's true, but it could burn bridges for me. What should I do?

Bozhen Petrickiy

Bozhen Petrickiy

Give negative reference.1 vote (14%)
Decline the request.1 vote (14%)
Give neutral reference.4 votes (57%)
Talk to former colleague.1 vote (14%)

7 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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A former colleague, who was unfairly treated, has asked me to provide a negative reference for their old manager, and I know it's true, but it could burn bridges for me. What should I do? | asQkme