My best friend is about to marry someone I know is deceitful and will likely cause them great pain, but revealing what I know would shatter their trust in me and potentially ruin their wedding. Do I speak up?

Danka Vujičić

Danka Vujičić

Tell friend everything1 vote (11%)
Drop subtle hints2 votes (22%)
Stay silent, support3 votes (33%)
Confront the partner directly3 votes (33%)

9 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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My best friend is about to marry someone I know is deceitful and will likely cause them great pain, but revealing what I know would shatter their trust in me and potentially ruin their wedding. Do I speak up? | asQkme