My best friend is about to marry someone I strongly suspect is conning them for money, but I have no concrete proof, just strong gut feelings and circumstantial evidence. Should I speak up and risk our friendship?

Patricia Gardner

Patricia Gardner

Speak up directly3 votes (27%)
Gather more proof3 votes (27%)
Stay silent, support3 votes (27%)
Hint at concerns2 votes (18%)

11 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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My best friend is about to marry someone I strongly suspect is conning them for money, but I have no concrete proof, just strong gut feelings and circumstantial evidence. Should I speak up and risk our friendship? | asQkme