I'm struggling with serious debt, and a distant relative, whom I barely know, just offered me a large 'gift' with the unspoken expectation that I will eventually care for them in their old age, which I'm not ready for. Do I accept the gift or decline?

Víctor Soto

Víctor Soto

Accept the gift, care later1 vote (10%)

Decline the gift3 votes (30%)

Clarify expectations3 votes (30%)

Seek alternate solutions3 votes (30%)

10 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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I'm struggling with serious debt, and a distant relative, whom I barely know, just offered me a large 'gift' with the unspoken expectation that I will eventually care for them in their old age, which I'm not ready for. Do I accept the gift or decline? | asQkme