I've been invited to my ex-partner's wedding, and while we ended amicably, attending feels like it might reopen old wounds for me, but declining could be seen as rude or unresolved. How should I respond?

Rebecca Pena

Rebecca Pena

Attend, be supportive1 vote (11%)
Politely decline attendance2 votes (22%)
Send a gift only4 votes (44%)
Talk to ex beforehand2 votes (22%)

9 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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I've been invited to my ex-partner's wedding, and while we ended amicably, attending feels like it might reopen old wounds for me, but declining could be seen as rude or unresolved. How should I respond? | asQkme