I've discovered my best friend, who is married, is having an affair with a mutual acquaintance. I don't want to betray her trust, but I also feel a responsibility to her spouse, whom I also care for. What should I do?

Charlotte Griffin

Charlotte Griffin

Confront friend privately1 vote (17%)

Tell spouse directly2 votes (33%)

Say nothing, avoid2 votes (33%)

Suggest friend confesses1 vote (17%)

6 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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I've discovered my best friend, who is married, is having an affair with a mutual acquaintance. I don't want to betray her trust, but I also feel a responsibility to her spouse, whom I also care for. What should I do? | asQkme