After years of trying, I've finally conceived, but my partner just revealed they have crippling debt they've hidden from me, which will significantly impact our future finances and ability to raise a child comfortably. Do I proceed with the pregnancy, hoping to manage, or consider termination for financial stability?

Leontine Vingerhoets

Leontine Vingerhoets

Proceed, find solutions2 votes (40%)
Consider termination2 votes (40%)
Delay, clear debt first0 votes (0%)
Demand partner's plan1 vote (20%)

5 votes total • Created 3/4/2026

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After years of trying, I've finally conceived, but my partner just revealed they have crippling debt they've hidden from me, which will significantly impact our future finances and ability to raise a child comfortably. Do I proceed with the pregnancy, hoping to manage, or consider termination for financial stability? | asQkme