I've discovered my best friend's partner is secretly having an affair. Telling my friend would undoubtedly shatter their trust in me for interfering, but not telling them feels like a betrayal of our long-standing friendship. What should I do?

Amalie Kristensen

Amalie Kristensen

Tell friend immediately6 votes (27%)
Confront partner first3 votes (14%)
Stay silent, observe4 votes (18%)
Anonymously inform friend9 votes (41%)

22 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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I've discovered my best friend's partner is secretly having an affair. Telling my friend would undoubtedly shatter their trust in me for interfering, but not telling them feels like a betrayal of our long-standing friendship. What should I do? | asQkme