I discovered my partner is secretly sending a significant portion of our joint savings to their estranged, struggling family, without my knowledge; do I confront them directly, or try to understand their motives first, risking more financial loss?
Andrea Sánchez
Confront directly now5 votes (45%)
Understand motives first1 vote (9%)
Seek couple's therapy1 vote (9%)
Monitor finances closely4 votes (36%)
11 votes total • Created 1/5/2026
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