I've discovered my new romantic partner has a past I find deeply troubling, involving actions that, while not illegal, go against my core values. Do I end the relationship or try to understand and accept their past?

Ayaan Shroff

Ayaan Shroff

End the relationship2 votes (10%)

Attempt to understand4 votes (20%)

Insist on therapy7 votes (35%)

Give them ultimatum7 votes (35%)

20 votes total • Created 1/5/2026

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I've discovered my new romantic partner has a past I find deeply troubling, involving actions that, while not illegal, go against my core values. Do I end the relationship or try to understand and accept their past? | asQkme