My partner wants to move across the country for their career, which would mean I'd have to leave my stable job and the community I've built for years. Do I prioritize their ambition or my established life?

Charlotte Johnson

Charlotte Johnson

Move, support partner11 votes (20%)
Stay, end relationship9 votes (16%)
Long-distance relationship15 votes (27%)
Compromise location later21 votes (38%)

56 votes total • Created 1/11/2026

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My partner wants to move across the country for their career, which would mean I'd have to leave my stable job and the community I've built for years. Do I prioritize their ambition or my established life? | asQkme