After years of trying, I've finally conceived, but my partner just revealed they have crippling debt they've hidden from me, which will significantly impact our future finances and ability to raise a child comfortably. Do I proceed with the pregnancy, hoping to manage, or consider termination for financial stability?

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Proceed, find solutions16 votes (29%)
Consider termination17 votes (30%)
Delay, clear debt first13 votes (23%)
Demand partner's plan10 votes (18%)

56 votes total • Created 1/13/2026

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After years of trying, I've finally conceived, but my partner just revealed they have crippling debt they've hidden from me, which will significantly impact our future finances and ability to raise a child comfortably. Do I proceed with the pregnancy, hoping to manage, or consider termination for financial stability? | asQkme