My lifelong best friend has started dating someone I deeply dislike – they're manipulative and I've seen them subtly mistreat others, but my friend is completely smitten and dismisses my concerns. Should I speak my full truth and risk the friendship, or stay silent and watch them potentially get hurt?

Alexander Crespo

Alexander Crespo

Confront friend directly13 votes (27%)
Stay silent, observe5 votes (10%)
Express subtle concerns16 votes (33%)
Distance myself gradually15 votes (31%)

49 votes total • Created 1/14/2026

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My lifelong best friend has started dating someone I deeply dislike – they're manipulative and I've seen them subtly mistreat others, but my friend is completely smitten and dismisses my concerns. Should I speak my full truth and risk the friendship, or stay silent and watch them potentially get hurt? | asQkme