My best friend has just confided in me that they are having an affair with a mutual close friend's spouse. They've begged me to keep it a secret. Do I uphold my loyalty to my best friend, or inform the betrayed friend and potentially blow up multiple relationships?

Önal Yeşilkaya

Önal Yeşilkaya

Keep the secret16 votes (32%)
Inform betrayed friend12 votes (24%)
Urge confession12 votes (24%)
Stay out of it10 votes (20%)

50 votes total • Created 1/15/2026

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My best friend has just confided in me that they are having an affair with a mutual close friend's spouse. They've begged me to keep it a secret. Do I uphold my loyalty to my best friend, or inform the betrayed friend and potentially blow up multiple relationships? | asQkme