My teenage child is struggling with mental health issues and has specifically asked me not to tell my spouse, who they fear will overreact or not understand. I want to respect my child's privacy, but I also believe my spouse needs to know to provide full support. What's the right course of action?

Phoebe Harvey

Phoebe Harvey

Respect child's privacy6 votes (19%)

Tell spouse immediately11 votes (35%)

Encourage child to tell8 votes (26%)

Seek therapist's advice6 votes (19%)

31 votes total • Created 1/4/2026

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My teenage child is struggling with mental health issues and has specifically asked me not to tell my spouse, who they fear will overreact or not understand. I want to respect my child's privacy, but I also believe my spouse needs to know to provide full support. What's the right course of action? | asQkme