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My partner recently started a new diet for health reasons, but it involves cooking separate, often more expensive, meals. I find it unsustainable and isolating at mealtimes. Do I express my frustration or quietly adapt for their well-being?

Kenzo PicardKenzo Picard
Express frustration directly31%
Quietly adapt, support17%

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29 votes1/5/2026

I'm a respected expert in my field, but a new theory, proposed by a junior researcher, directly contradicts some of my most foundational work. While controversial, their evidence is compelling. Do I dismiss it, endorse it, or investigate collaboratively?

Iida PeralaIida Perala
Dismiss new theory23%
Endorse new theory18%

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22 votes1/5/2026

My partner wants to convert our spare room into a nursery, assuming we'll start a family soon, but I'm privately questioning if I truly want children, and have been for a while. Do I confess my doubts now or go along for a bit longer?

Bärbel MahnkeBärbel Mahnke
Confess doubts immediately28%
Go along, reconsider later44%

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18 votes1/5/2026

I've been working tirelessly for years on a passion project, sacrificing social life and stability, but it's not gaining traction. My family is urging me to get a 'real job'. Do I persist, pivot, or abandon my dream entirely?

Daniel PicardDaniel Picard
Persist, ignore critiques21%
Pivot project direction21%

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14 votes1/5/2026

My best friend confessed a serious crime to me, stating they deeply regret it and are trying to turn their life around. The victim is a complete stranger. Do I report them to the authorities, give them a chance to confess, or keep their secret?

Sadhil ManjunathSadhil Manjunath
Report to authorities15%
Urge them to confess35%

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20 votes1/5/2026

My neighborhood is proposing a new community center that would improve services for many, but it requires demolishing a historic, albeit decaying, building that I believe holds significant local cultural value. Do I support community progress or historic preservation?

Pascual ArevaloPascual Arevalo
Support new center36%
Fight demolition36%

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11 votes1/5/2026

I've been offered a substantial inheritance from a distant relative, but the condition is I must sever all ties with a family member I hold dear, due to an old, bitter feud I wasn't involved in. Do I take the money or keep my family connection?

Jennifer RobinsonJennifer Robinson
Take inheritance, cut ties33%
Reject inheritance, keep ties10%

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21 votes1/5/2026

My company is laying off a quarter of its workforce, and I know I could save a close friend's job by subtly reassigning their 'at-risk' project to a less-favored, but equally competent, colleague. Do I use my influence or remain impartial?

Lily ThomasLily Thomas
Save friend's job8%
Remain impartial42%

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26 votes1/5/2026

I've started experiencing vivid, distressing memories of repressed childhood trauma, but my family insists nothing ever happened and that I'm just 'overreacting'. Do I confront them directly, seek therapy alone, or try to suppress it further for peace?

محمدطاها کوتیمحمدطاها کوتی
Confront family directly33%
Seek therapy independently17%

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24 votes1/5/2026

My dream job offer just came in, but it's in a city three states away, and my partner's elderly, ailing parents live locally and rely heavily on them for care. Do I pursue my career aspirations or prioritize my partner's family commitments?

Gorisvit VavrikGorisvit Vavrik
Accept job, long-distance36%
Decline job, offer support28%

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25 votes1/5/2026

My therapist recommended I cut ties with a long-term friend who has a consistently negative influence on me, but I feel immense guilt at the thought of abandoning them; do I prioritize my mental health or our history?

Kuzey BaturalpKuzey Baturalp
Cut ties for health35%
Maintain friendship, cope25%

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20 votes1/5/2026

I've developed a new technology that could revolutionize an industry, but it also has the potential for significant misuse and harm if it falls into the wrong hands; do I release it or suppress it?

آوینا زارعیآوینا زارعی
Release, with safeguards21%
Suppress the technology21%

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14 votes1/5/2026

My partner and I saved for years for a down payment on a house, but now their sibling has a medical emergency and needs the money; do we give it to them, or keep our down payment?

Agafiya MaksimenkoAgafiya Maksimenko
Give money to sibling14%
Keep money for house43%

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14 votes1/5/2026

My neighbor openly holds hateful, discriminatory views that make me uncomfortable, but they are otherwise a kind, helpful person; do I confront them, avoid them, or try to change their mind?

Mahir UlsteinMahir Ulstein
Confront views directly28%
Avoid neighbor entirely33%

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18 votes1/5/2026

I was offered a substantial sum to act as a spokesperson for a product I don't personally believe in, but the money would allow me to pursue my true artistic calling; do I compromise my integrity for my art?

Veer KumarVeer Kumar
Take job, fund art43%
Refuse, uphold integrity17%

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23 votes1/5/2026

I'm an immigrant who's successfully built a new life, but my family back home relies on my financial support, hindering my own ability to save and invest; do I prioritize their needs or my own future?

Mia KnightMia Knight
Prioritize family's needs37%
Prioritize own future11%

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19 votes1/5/2026

My best friend is planning a huge, expensive wedding they can't afford and are going into significant debt for; do I voice my concerns, even if it might strain our friendship?

Niklas AaltoNiklas Aalto
Voice concerns gently8%
Stay silent, support46%

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13 votes1/5/2026

I've been given a unique opportunity to attend a prestigious workshop that aligns with my passions, but it requires me to completely deprioritize my side hustle which reliably pays rent; do I chase my passion or maintain stability?

Iida PeralaIida Perala
Prioritize passion, risk23%
Maintain stability, wait15%

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13 votes1/5/2026

My elderly neighbor, who lives alone, is clearly not caring for herself, but consistently refuses all offers of help; do I respect her autonomy or intervene for her safety?

Dominykas MagnusDominykas Magnus
Respect autonomy fully33%
Contact adult services13%

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15 votes1/5/2026

I'm a respected artist whose previous work anonymously used elements from another artist's obscure piece, now that artist is gaining recognition; do I confess my past appropriation?

Gorisvit VavrikGorisvit Vavrik
Confess, give credit10%
Stay silent, hope not38%

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29 votes1/5/2026

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