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My partner confessed to a past infidelity years ago before we met, but it involves someone we now frequently encounter in social settings. Knowing this detail makes me deeply uncomfortable around this person, but bringing it up now could reopen old wounds for my partner and potentially damage our trust. Should I voice my discomfort or try to move past it internally?
Mandy WelchExpress discomfort now12%
Process feelings internally20%
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41 votes•1/14/2026
I've been offered a substantial sum by a major corporation to use my unique artistic style for their advertising campaign, but it goes against my core anti-consumerist values. Do I compromise my beliefs for financial freedom or maintain artistic integrity?
Steve MartinCompromise for financial gain30%
Maintain artistic integrity28%
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71 votes•1/14/2026
I am a war refugee who has integrated well into a new country, but a new policy could send me back to my country of origin, which is still in turmoil where my life would be at risk. Do I fight for my adopted home, or flee to another safer unknown?
Daisy GrayFight for current home20%
Flee to another country24%
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46 votes•1/14/2026
I witnessed a minor crime committed by a respected member of the community who has done immense good for many people. If I report it, their reputation and good works could be completely undone. Do I uphold justice or protect their legacy?
Radivoy DolenkoReport the crime30%
Confront privately24%
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66 votes•1/14/2026
My adult child, struggling with addiction, is asking for money again, promising this time it's for treatment, but they've broken similar promises before. Do I provide financial support, risking enabling, or cut them off entirely?
Todora LyucenkoProvide, with strict conditions18%
Cut off, suggest rehab32%
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71 votes•1/14/2026
My community is split over a new development project: one side argues for economic growth and jobs, the other for preserving local heritage and green space. I see valid points on both sides and depend on both the economy and the environment. Which side do I publicly support, or do I remain neutral?
Çetin ÖymenSupport development26%
Support preservation25%
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61 votes•1/14/2026
I've been given a promotion at work that comes with significantly more pay and prestige, but also a massive increase in responsibility and stress, meaning I'd have less time for my passion projects and personal life. Do I accept the advancement, or decline for a better work-life balance?
Salvador SnyderAccept promotion17%
Decline, maintain balance20%
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70 votes•1/14/2026
My estranged sibling, whom I haven't spoken to in years due to a painful family rift, is now facing a severe health crisis and wants to reconcile. Do I open myself up to potential renewed pain and past trauma for a chance at healing, or protect my current peace and stay disconnected?
Rose BergeronAttempt reconciliation29%
Maintain distance17%
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66 votes•1/14/2026
I accidentally discovered that a highly respected mentor, foundational to my career, plagiarized a significant portion of their most famous work. Do I expose them, tarnishing their legacy, or keep silent to protect my own advancement?
Avery MartinezExpose them, uphold integrity32%
Keep silent, protect career24%
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50 votes•1/14/2026
I've inherited a significant sum of money, enough to live comfortably for years without working, but I've always defined myself by my career and contribution. Do I pursue my passion projects without financial pressure, or continue working in a field I no longer love to maintain a sense of purpose and routine?
Purificación RojasQuit, pursue passions28%
Continue working, donate30%
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43 votes•1/14/2026
I'm a researcher whose groundbreaking work could cure a rare disease, but it requires animal testing that causes significant suffering, impacting a species I deeply care about. Do I push forward with the research for human benefit, or scale back/abandon it due to ethical concerns for animals?
Berkay Van der GeestProceed with research29%
Seek alternative methods28%
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72 votes•1/14/2026
My lifelong best friend has started dating someone I deeply dislike – they're manipulative and I've seen them subtly mistreat others, but my friend is completely smitten and dismisses my concerns. Should I speak my full truth and risk the friendship, or stay silent and watch them potentially get hurt?
Alexander CrespoConfront friend directly27%
Stay silent, observe10%
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49 votes•1/14/2026
Our city is debating whether to significantly cut funding for arts and cultural programs to reallocate to infrastructure repairs. As a concerned citizen, do I prioritize cultural enrichment or practical urban development?
Milo RobertPrioritize cultural funding34%
Prioritize infrastructure28%
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50 votes•1/14/2026
A highly controversial artist, whose work I find deeply offensive on moral grounds, has been invited to speak at my university. As a student council member, do I support free speech by allowing it, or advocate for its cancellation?
Elli NiemelaSupport free speech19%
Advocate for cancellation27%
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63 votes•1/13/2026
A close friend just confessed they stole credit for my idea at work, which led to their promotion, but they're now deeply remorseful and offered me a share of their earnings. Do I expose them, seeking justice, or accept their offer and move on?
Eric GalindoExpose them for justice23%
Accept offer, move on23%
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48 votes•1/13/2026
I inherited a substantial sum, enough to retire early, but my passion project – a small, struggling business – still requires my full-time effort and financial investment to survive. Do I liquidate the business for security or continue pursuing my passion?
Yasmine PetitRetire, enjoy inheritance36%
Invest, pursue passion27%
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64 votes•1/13/2026
I've been offered a promotion that requires me to manage a former close colleague with whom I had a complicated romantic history that ended badly. Do I accept, pushing personal feelings aside, or decline to avoid potential workplace awkwardness and bias?
Niklas AaltoAccept, maintain professionalism29%
Decline, explain conflict22%
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65 votes•1/13/2026
My young child is being bullied at school, but the school administration is dismissive and ineffective. Do I consider homeschooling, despite feeling unqualified, or continue fighting the system, hoping for a resolution?
Madison BradleyStart homeschooling child26%
Fight school system harder28%
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50 votes•1/13/2026
My cultural background dictates I marry within my community, but I've fallen deeply in love with someone from a different background, and my family threatens to disown me if I choose them. Do I honor tradition or follow my heart?
Marco SantiagoFollow heart, face consequences17%
Honor tradition, sacrifice love23%
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52 votes•1/13/2026
My partner wants to convert our spare room into a home gym, which I desperately wanted to turn into a dedicated creative space for my ailing mental health. Do I compromise my needs for their passion or stand firm on my own well-being?
Mohamed CanoCompromise, share space23%
Stand firm, explain need27%
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62 votes•1/13/2026
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