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I live in a small community and my business heavily relies on local support, but my personal values are increasingly clashing with the dominant, conservative views expressed by a vocal segment of my customer base. Do I voice my opinions and risk alienating customers, or stay silent to protect my livelihood?

Cristian GilCristian Gil
Voice opinions, risk business23%
Stay silent, protect business23%

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30 votes1/4/2026

I've started a new hobby with a group of wonderfully supportive people, but it takes up a significant amount of my weekends, cutting into time I used to spend with my long-term friends who are now feeling neglected. How do I balance my new passion with existing friendships without sacrificing either?

Enilda MendesEnilda Mendes
Prioritize new hobby21%
Prioritize old friends31%

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29 votes1/4/2026

My teenage child is struggling with mental health issues and has specifically asked me not to tell my spouse, who they fear will overreact or not understand. I want to respect my child's privacy, but I also believe my spouse needs to know to provide full support. What's the right course of action?

Phoebe HarveyPhoebe Harvey
Respect child's privacy19%
Tell spouse immediately35%

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31 votes1/4/2026

My spouse wants to use our joint savings, which we've been accumulating for a down payment on a house, to instead fund a risky entrepreneurial venture they're passionate about. I'm terrified of losing our security, but I also don't want to stifle their dreams. What do we do?

Uriel HernádezUriel Hernádez
Agree, support venture21%
Refuse, prioritize security26%

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19 votes1/4/2026

I accidentally discovered that a colleague is routinely taking credit for my ideas in team meetings, which is impacting my career progression. If I expose them, I risk creating a hostile work environment, but if I stay silent, I feel my contributions are being stolen. How do I address this effectively?

Seth BarrettSeth Barrett
Confront colleague privately27%
Talk to HR/manager27%

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11 votes1/4/2026

My aging dog, who has been a beloved family member for years, is now suffering from chronic pain that daily medication no longer fully alleviates, and the vet says there are no more treatment options. Do I choose euthanasia to end their suffering, or keep them with me for as long as possible, even if it means prolonged discomfort?

Mila GolubovićMila Golubović
Euthanize, end suffering25%
Keep, prolong life19%

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16 votes1/4/2026

I've been secretly offered a job at a competitor company that provides much better pay and benefits, but my current company invested heavily in my training and professional development, and I feel a strong sense of loyalty. Do I prioritize my career advancement or my loyalty to my current employer?

Siiri JarviSiiri Jarvi
Accept competitor's offer22%
Stay out of loyalty26%

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27 votes1/4/2026

A close relative, who voted for a political candidate whose views I find abhorrent and harmful, has asked me for a large sum of money to help them through a medical crisis. Do I help them financially despite our deep political differences, or let my moral objections guide my decision?

Corentin DavidCorentin David
Help, despite differences38%
Decline, state reasons0%

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13 votes1/4/2026

I've been given an opportunity to relocate for work to a country with a vastly different culture and language, which excites me personally, but my young children are deeply rooted in their current school and friendships and are adamant they don't want to move. Do I pursue my personal growth, or prioritize my children's stability?

Jonathan WashingtonJonathan Washington
Prioritize own growth27%
Prioritize children's stability20%

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15 votes1/4/2026

My family has a long-standing tradition of lavish, expensive holidays that I can no longer afford to contribute to or attend without going into debt, but if I opt out, I'm seen as rejecting the family and hurting feelings. How do I manage this without causing a rift or financial strain?

Dana BlazheyovskiyDana Blazheyovskiy
Explain financial situation19%
Attend, go into debt25%

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16 votes1/4/2026

I'm a journalist and have uncovered significant evidence of corruption within a powerful local government body, but my editor is hesitant to publish due to potential lawsuits and threats to the newspaper's financial stability. Do I push for publication and risk the paper's ruin, or withhold the story, letting injustice continue?

Afşar ErdoğanAfşar Erdoğan
Push for publication31%
Seek external publisher23%

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26 votes1/4/2026

My partner wants to get a pet, specifically a large dog, which I'm allergic to, but they insist it will be fine with proper air filters and cleaning. I love them and want them to be happy, but I dread the constant discomfort and potential health issues. What's the best way to resolve this?

Matthias TrompertMatthias Trompert
Refuse, state allergy35%
Compromise, small hypoallergenic26%

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23 votes1/4/2026

I witnessed a minor hit-and-run in a parking lot, but the perpetrator was an elderly neighbor whom I know is on a fixed income and whose license is likely to be revoked if reported. The damage was minimal, but the victim is clearly distressed. Do I report my neighbor, or try to mediate a private solution?

Maia WoodMaia Wood
Report to authorities22%
Talk to neighbor privately22%

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27 votes1/4/2026

I inherited a significant sum of money, enough to drastically change my life, but it came with a stipulation that I must use it to start a specific type of business that I have no interest in or passion for. Do I accept the money and pursue a path I dislike, or decline the inheritance and continue my preferred, less affluent life?

Dana BlazheyovskiyDana Blazheyovskiy
Accept, start business38%
Decline, pursue passion23%

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13 votes1/4/2026

My child, who is under 18, has confided in me about their gender identity, which is different from the gender they were assigned at birth. My spouse, however, holds strong traditional views and would likely react negatively, possibly even cutting ties with our child. How do I support my child while also navigating the complexities of my marriage?

Abigail EvansAbigail Evans
Support child, confront spouse21%
Educate spouse privately21%

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14 votes1/4/2026

I've been offered a promotion at work that comes with a significant pay raise, but it requires me to manage a team that includes my current closest friend, and I know they also applied for the same position and were rejected. How do I accept the promotion without jeopardizing our friendship or making them feel resentful?

Richard JenkinsRichard Jenkins
Accept, be professional25%
Decline, avoid conflict38%

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24 votes1/4/2026

I'm a researcher whose groundbreaking work could potentially cure a rare genetic disease, but the only way to quickly secure enough funding to complete the trials is to partner with a pharmaceutical company known for exorbitant pricing and questionable ethics. Do I compromise my values for the greater good, or seek a slower, ethically sound path?

April GonzalesApril Gonzales
Partner, expedite cure8%
Seek ethical, slower funding50%

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12 votes1/4/2026

My aging parents, who are fiercely independent but clearly struggling with daily tasks, flatly refuse any help or discussions about moving to assisted living, yet I worry constantly about their safety and well-being living alone. How do I navigate this delicate situation without stripping them of their dignity or autonomy?

Harita YablonskiyHarita Yablonskiy
Insist on external help20%
Respect their wishes, worry47%

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15 votes1/4/2026

I've discovered my best friend, who is struggling financially, has been secretly using my Netflix, Spotify, and even my Amazon Prime account for purchases, without asking. If I confront them, I risk hurting our friendship, but if I don't, I feel taken advantage of and resentful. What do I do?

Snezana PerrinSnezana Perrin
Confront directly, set boundaries23%
Silently change passwords23%

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13 votes1/4/2026

My dream job offer just came through, but it's in a city where my long-term partner has absolutely no career prospects and a strong family tie, and they've made it clear they won't move. Do I take the job, knowing it likely means the end of our relationship, or turn it down and stay, sacrificing a major professional opportunity?

Irma da PazIrma da Paz
Prioritize career, move0%
Prioritize relationship, stay7%

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14 votes1/4/2026

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